Laurel Black - Balanced by Design

          Imagination, style, and humor are three words that come to mind when I hear the name Laurel Black. Whether creating branding for an international firm or letterhead for a local non-profit, she brings qualities of imagination and practicality to her work.

          Then there’s Laurel’s sense of humor. In meetings, her professional demeanor is one of attentive listening and appropriate questions, and yet, one can almost see the twinkle in her eye and know that a touch of levity is about to shared.

          Like all artists, she usually lets her work speak for her, except when Taking the Plunge!

  

Laurel Black

If I had to limit myself to one word to describe what I’m about, it would be hard because most who know me know that I seldom limit myself when it comes to words. They might choose words like verbose or smartass. But let’s pretend there’s a gun to my head: I choose –   balance. When I am in the process of evaluating/analyzing/making choices, the questions that comes up regularly for me is “Where is the balance?” This to me is at the core of meaningful communication.

I have become sensitized to false dichotomies. We are too often presented with opposed choices that aren’t really opposed, such as art vs. science, or jobs vs. the environment, or healthy food vs. delicious food. I think this contributes in part to the current dysfunction in our government. Framing choices as mutually hostile allows partisanship to turn into power tripping.

So, the other word for me is independent. I reject simplistic ideologies that boil things down to manipulative sound bites however seductive they may seem. I try to maintain an objective distance that allows for clear understanding. It’s not easy, and sometimes I’m unsuccessful, but like everyone else, I’m a work in progress.

       

1. Who are you? List 5 nouns that define you!

Definitely “curious” is number one. The rest are:

Aspirational – Compassionate – Intuitive – Creative – Intelligent  

(I’m working on them.)

2. What have you done that you’re most proud of?

    Birthed my daughter and my business. They’re my proudest efforts so far,

    and both still in development. As am I.

3. If you could change one thing in your past, what would it be?

I would have started working on fitness and health earlier. If allowed more         than one thing, I would edit some early poor relationship choices. And I would   have trained myself to be better at learning new things. Actually, I suppose I   could do that now.

4. On a personal level, what drives you crazy? What gives you joy?

Crazy: People who don’t understand that responsibility is the other side of the   rights coin. These are the ones who complain about poor government services AND their taxes. They also leave their shopping carts in the middle of the parking lot.

Joy: The opportunity to help others express their value to the world (in other words, my work). Supporting people and organizations of worth is when I feel most powerful.

5. Given no restrictions (i.e. money/physical capabilities) – what would you most like to do?

Travel widely, deeply understand what makes people tick, and learn new computer programs with total ease and zero frustration.

It would also be cool to be able to get by on four hours of sleep a night so I would have more time to do stuff.

  

To learn more about Laurel, go to:

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Stacy Lawson - A Woman with a Different View of the World

Ever meet someone and just know either 1. you’ve met them in a past life or 2. you’re going to be good friends? One reason I enjoy not only writing but reading my blog, “Taking the Plunge”, is learning more about people – people I thought I knew and people I’d like to know even better.

Stacy Lawson and I met a few weeks ago in the Artist Trust EDGE Grant Program for Literary Artists. I rarely thrust my work upon strangers (or for that matter, friends) and yet before the end of the first weekend I handed Stacy four pages and asked her to read them.

The jury’s still out for me in regards to “past lives”, but I’m pretty certain Stacy and I are going to be good friends. 

I hope you enjoy getting to know this interesting, smart, funny woman as much I do.

Stacy Lawson

I am a writer, yoga instructor/owner of Red Square Yoga, and a public school advocate. 

My work has appeared in Under the Sun, Drash Northwest Mosaic, r.kv.r.y quarterly literary journal, Raven Chronicles, and Sunday Ink: Works by the Uptown Writers. I live in Seattle with my husband, two sons, and my ill-mannered dog, Jasper.

I write to find meaning, to question myself, to question others, to question beliefs held too firmly. I write to question fears and to unravel insecurities that can compress into rock-solid absolutes.

I write to add breath and humor to suffocating arguments. I write to organize my thoughts, to formulate credible arguments and to find the right words to express myself.

I write to have a long sustained dialogue with the Self, an uninterrupted one-on-one, a spiritual moment not dependent on any God, a synagogue, a guru, a virgin birth, or other convention.

One View

1. Who are you? List 5 nouns that define you!

Curious – Electric – Eclectic – Pragmatic – Funny

2. What have you done that you’re most proud of?

I am most proud of my relationships with my husband, kids, parents, sibs, and friends.  

First my relationship with my husband (who is really too good for me in many many ways) has been the major work in this life.  We have been together for 27 years and have had our ups and downs, but we've really negotiated the big waves.  We've had hard days, months, and years, but we've kept at it.  Through working on this relationship, I have learned a lot about all relationships and how to move more graciously in the world.  

I am proud of my relationship with my two sons.  Daniel is 15, William is 11 (names altered to protect the innocent). I've worked hard to figure out how to negotiate the role of parent. I think deeply about parenting.  What is it that I/we want for the boys? How can I prepare them for the world to come?  How much should I protect them from the world out there?  How can I help them to own their lives now and in the future, own their choices, and live with the consequences. I try to carefully consider when I need to step in and when I need to stand aside. 

Finally, I am proud of my relationships with my family and friends. The word yoga comes from the Sanskrit word yuj which means to unite, to meet, to commune, to consummate. My relationships are part of my yoga practice.

Disclaimer:  Not all of my relationships are perfect or near perfect. (Just ask around.) But, for the most part, I'm comfortable with where things stand.  I don't believe that family members are required to get along by virtue of sharing blood or legal arrangements. To some degree, we are all broken, and we look for relationships with people who don't hurt us more or challenge us in unhelpful ways.

This makes sense to me.  

 3. If you could change one thing in your past, what would it be?  

I would have given more money to Janey when she came to me after her husband died. She subsequently died shortly after. She was in need. But, I was afraid of getting tied into supporting her and I wasn't ready to negotiate that. 

4. On a personal level, what drives you crazy? What gives you joy?

Entitlement drives me crazy (my own included).

I think there are some basic misunderstandings that lead to bad behavior. There really is no such thing as innate equality except as an idea. After conception, we have a placement in the world that scripts us.

Not all people are born with the same health, looks, opportunities, resources, and access. Many poor people work very hard, and it never amounts to anything. Many wealthy people work very hard, but once you have money, it's easier to make more money. Many wealthy people and many poor people don't work hard at all. Fair doesn't really exist in the bigger universe.

So, I believe we need a safety net that guarantees all a basic level of support that comes from taxation. I'm not afraid of taxes. Let's get rid of the loopholes. I don't believe that people aim to go on welfare.  I believe that people lack opportunities, exposure, role models, money, etc. 

I find joy in music, dancing, knitting, reading, writing, sleeping, walking, chocolate, hiking, kayaking, etc...

5. Given no restrictions (i.e. money/physical capabilities) – what would you most like to do?      

Mostly I want to travel, and I do travel quite a bit. I'd love to live somewhere else for even 3 months before my kids leave home. I want to navigate the unknown together and to explore.

I want to be out of my element.  

Lots of wonderful views!

To learn even more about Stacy:

stacylawson.com

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Elizabeth Kelly - Life is an Adventure

          Making new friends at any age is such a joy. Sitting across the room from Elizabeth Kelly in a singing group I realized we shared a birthday. We decided to celebrate over tea and toast. Since that first cup (and many subsequent cups of tea over the years), we found we shared life experiences – love of music, hospice volunteering, reading and writing, and best of all, a love of travel.

          Her calm demeanor is augmented by an inquisitive mind, a zeal for the stage, and a spirit of adventure that’s unmatched.

          We should all live as long and enjoy life as much as Elizabeth Kelly.

                   

Elizabeth Kelly

          I believe I’m in this world to learn who I am. It’s a life-long process and although I’m 80+ years into it, I still have a lot to learn.

I have been singing since I was six (maybe earlier) and love to sing, especially with others. I am also a writer and have written three books, one of which, a memoir, I self-published (sort of). The other two haven’t been published. I write poetry in my head all the time and try to write one poem a week.

My love of the movies has been with me as long as I can remember. I still go to the movies a lot, but also watch them on TV and DVD.       

My children and grandchildren are my greatest joy. I delight in them all and will champion them as long as I live.

I have traveled to all seven continents and been to 49 states (I still haven’t made it to Rhode Island).

Elizabeth Kelly

1.     Who are you? List 5 nouns that define you!

Contentment – Curiosity – Love – Wanderlust – Minimalist

2.     What have you done that you’re most proud of?

I am mother to five beautiful souls.

3.     If you could change one thing in your past, what would it be?

I wish I had used the four-year music scholarship to Portland University I received when I graduated from high school in Kelso, Washington.

4.     On a personal level, what drives you crazy? What gives you joy?

Nothing drives me crazy. I’m pretty tolerant.

I get joy from music especially classical, but I love most all music. Nature gives me joy, in all its abundance. I also love good writing, good filmmaking, good painting, good photography, architecture, and of course, good food.

I get joy from hearing others laugh and from laughing at myself.

5.     Given no restrictions (i.e. money/physical capabilities) – what would you most like to do?

My first thought is to say, “Put an end to war,” but I think it’s all a part of our evolution, and perhaps we as a people have to go through it.

My second thought was, “Get rid of all guns, here and abroad.” Of course, that’s just wishful fantasizing.

I’ve always wanted to visit Cape Town, RSA and Kruger National Park.

I really mean it when I say I’m content.

Hawaii 2014

100 Degrees in Cambodia

Cooling off with a vanilla shake in Vietnam